Arranged marriage!! |
I wasn't looking for it. Had no plans, wasn't even seeking it. I was still stuck in my past. What did I do? Where did I go wrong? How should I fix all this? What if he doesn't want to fix things? There was so much going on in my mind already that I saw this matrimonial meeting that was being set up by my patents as a pain in the ass. Something I wanted to avoid at all cost.
"I am not interested in an arrange marriage. I will never go for one," I told myself. How can I be with someone I meet for maybe two or three times. The whole concept is bulshit. That's why marriages don't work. And that's how I argued with myself. Telling every iota of my brain that an arrange marriage isn't for me. But why are my parents not understanding? Why are they being so adamant on this guy?
Suddenly my mom came into my room and asked me to have a look at the guy's profile. I was stunned for a second. I felt as if she could read my mind. Whatever thoughts were cooking in my head, she could see through everything. I hesitated. Tried to buy some time to avoid the discussion on whether I will meet him or not. Work was always my excuse, so this time too I told her that I have an article to finish. "There is a deadline Maa, you don't understand. I have to finish," I told her. She tried to talk me out of it by giving her own reasons. "It will take just five minutes," she said. "But what about the long and arduous discussions that will follow when I say no," I thought to myself. I knew I had to avoid it at any cost. So I threw a fit, saying, "My boss doesn't care if I agree to this match or not, he cares only about this article and I'll get fired if I don't submit." I kept blabbering about something or the other work related issue till she gave up and left my room saying, "We will take this up tomorrow. Finish everything that you have to do. I won't take any of your excuses tomorrow."
I have to admit, I was majorly relieved. A small smile passed through my face. It was like winning a small battle. At least for now. I knew this happiness was temporary, and that I will have to face all this again tomorrow. But for now I had won and that gave me a strange sense of confidence that I will be able to fix things after all. I was happy with that thought.